How
To End Bullying?
Bullying
is a problem in our society. In facts, bullying is very scary. Because bullying
can take many forms of harm. Victims of bullying likely kids and they to
contemplate suicide if they depressed. The fact from Finland is the case that
people who were bullied as kids got the effect when they victims bullying. The
effect from this case is depressed and frustration will be continued starting
from to suffer as young adults and the harm for girls who were bullied grew up
to attempt and commit suicide more frequently by the age of 25, for instance,
and boys were more likely to develop anxiety disorders. The solution to protect
the victim who bullying there has three strategies, first is to set clear rules
and sanctions for people who do bully, the second precaution against bullying
is rewarding positive behavior, the third precaution is open in communication.
The
first action taken for perpetrators of bullying is to set clear rules and
sanctions for people who intimidate. This is necessary because according to
Peguero (2012) emphasizes "the rules and consequences for breaking the
rules are clearly stated and students need to know what will happen if they are
involved in certain behaviors." Providing clear rules to the perpetrator
is the first step to stop bullying. The rule is a written form of law that will
give a deterrent effect to the perpetrators. In the case of bullying at the
university Gunadarma Irwan said "Even if there are criminal elements, this
can be disciplined" Jl Margonda, Depok, Monday (17/7) can stop with what
he does and realize that the actions he is doing harm the victim and himself.
The
second precaution against intimidation is rewarding positive behavior, which
means giving training to the behavior of those who do not plant. provide
education and learning about how to respect and accept the shortcomings of
other people's advantages. providing education on intimidation can be
successful if victims of intimidation such as students report inappropriate
behavior by other students. to provide education against intimidation by
teaching BP-PBS to students. As an example. If a student reports problematic
behavior such as bullying, ask the student who reports, "Do you say
'stop'?" Or "Are you walking away?" If students who report don't
say "stop" or walk away, practice the response and encourage them to
use the response in the next time and not go further. If students who report
saying "stop" or walk away, interact with identified students
involved in problematic behavior. Ask students to offend whether he or she was
asked by someone else to stop. Then ask if he really stopped. Give practice for
the steps that must be followed when someone asks you to stop. thus positive
behavioral learning given can change inappropriate behavior for the better.
The
third precaution is open in communication. The key to ending the bullying is to
make open communication who bullying. Parents have to be observant of the
spoken and unspoken messages they get from their children. Take a good look at
your child’s clothing and possessions when he gets home from school or sports.
Because with communication child whom bullying can get Communication between
parents and children is a key to putting a stop to bullying. Being able to ask
the right questions and then truly listening is the start of getting to the
bottom of this type of problem. Parents must stay aware of what is happening to
their children. It just might be their own child who is the bully. The
statistic shows that over 30 percent of children are involved on a regular
basis as a victim of bullying, as a bully themselves or participating in both
behaviors. From the study show with communicating “15 minutes a day of focused conversation
with a child about issues related to bullying can help build self-esteem and
prevent bullying.”
In
conclusion, the reason why bullies must be educated is that many of them are do
not know aware of exactly hurting their victim. Bullying can come anytime and
everywhere. With educated the bullying can increase the victims bullying. And
the factors to make they stop with they doing is from parents and educators,
who are the majority of the readers of this site, have the power to change it.
Brian Meyer said, “Teaching them to show respect to each other is more
effective than saying ‘Don’t be a bully,’’’. So, in order to succeed in ending
intimidation, the teacher must leave the attitude of not caring about the
student, but go down directly in the field and see for themselves what is
happening. the way that can be done by the teacher is to provide protection and
escort. so that everything that students do can be monitored and safe.
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when you said that communication can end the bullying. are you site about that? is it done before?
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